Say Yes to Your Friends

Kevin Willett says helping friends when you can may reap surprise benefits.

Many of you know that for the last few years I have danced in the Nutcracker with my friend Roshni from the Northeast Dance Center. Dancing in the Nutcracker is WAY out of my comfort zone, but I did it because Roshni is a great person and she needed my help. Because I said yes, I was able to meet a whole group of people that I never would have met otherwise, and today one of them became a client. Now please understand, I am not telling you to help your friends to get clients. I am telling you to help them because it is the right thing to do and it makes you a good friend. Sometimes though, the universe does reward you with a new client.

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Kevin Willett is the Author of One Connection How you can grow your business  (and change the world) one connection at a time. The business networking book is available on Amazon. Purchase One Connection on Amazon

Kevin is also the CEO of the Friends of Kevin Networking Group  and the New England B2B Networking Group. Please connect with him on social media to hear about his upcoming business networking events.

Record an Away Message on Your Phone

Kevin Willett explains how you could be missing out on important messages.

I have been making some calls this morning to promote our upcoming networking events and I am surprised by how many people don’t have a missed call message on their voicemail. Their message consists of them or a computer voice repeating the phone number. “You have reached 978…..”. There is no name, no business name, just the number.

Now maybe it is just me, but that always freezes me. I think to myself, is this person still in business? Did I dial the correct number? Often when this happens I simply hang up rather than risk leaving a message for the wrong person. Are your potential clients hanging up on you because they feel the same way I do? Why risk it? Take a few minutes today to record a proper voicemail message. But before you do, give some thought to the message. Have you ever left a message for someone and their voice mail message sounded like you were bothering them? Please make sure your message is upbeat and easy to understand. Don’t miss out on any more voicemails.

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Kevin Willett is the Author of One Connection How you can grow your business  (and change the world) one connection at a time. The business networking book is available on Amazon. Purchase One Connection on Amazon

Kevin is also the CEO of the Friends of Kevin Networking Group  and the New England B2B Networking Group. Please connect with him on social media to hear about his upcoming business networking events.

The Check is NOT in the Mail

Kevin Willett explains that when is comes to money and business, honesty really is the best policy.

Have you ever told someone that their check was in the mail when it wasn’t? My question to you is why did you lie about it? Why didn’t you simply tell them the truth that you were waiting on some checks to come in, and as soon as they did you would email them and let them know that you have sent them their payment?  When you lie about simple things like this, it makes it really hard to trust you and refer you to others. Sometimes it is not just the lie. What if the company you hadn’t paid yet was relying on that money to meet their own bills, or to hit a budget goal? Being able to know that it wasn’t actually on the way may have helped them make other plans. Please remember this tip next time you are tempted to lie to your business partners. Honesty really is the best policy in business.

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Kevin Willett is the Author of One Connection How you can grow your business  (and change the world) one connection at a time. The business networking book is available on Amazon. Purchase One Connection on Amazon

Kevin is also the CEO of the Friends of Kevin Networking Group  and the New England B2B Networking Group. Please connect with him on social media to hear about his upcoming business networking events.

Vision Networking

Kevin Willett explains how you simply don’t know what the future holds for you and your business.

I had an interesting coffee meeting last week with a guy who has some business interests in CT, MA and NH. Right now I am not hosting any networking events in the towns that he does business in, and he is not attending any networking events in the towns I host in, but we both wanted to meet because we know that eventually we will expand our reach into each other’s areas. We each had a vision of where we wanted to be.

A mistake I see people make all the time is they lack vision. They think about what they are doing today and don’t consider the future. When I started New England B2B Networking Group, I never imagined that I would host 22 events monthly. Honestly there were a number of people I didn’t meet with because I said  I am never going to host events in their town, so there is no need to meet with them. That was a big mistake and it slowed down my growth some. Please don’t focus on just what you are doing today. Make time to meet with people that might not fit into your plans today, because you simply don’t know what the future holds for you and your business.

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Kevin Willett is the Author of One Connection How you can grow your business  (and change the world) one connection at a time. The business networking book is available on Amazon. Purchase One Connection on Amazon

Kevin is also the CEO of the Friends of Kevin Networking Group  and the New England B2B Networking Group. Please connect with him on social media to hear about his upcoming business networking events.

No Show, No Call, No Text

Kevin Willett discusses the importance of courtesy when you can’t make a meeting.

Last week one of my friends posted a question on social media asking how long you should wait for someone to show up for a coffee meeting. The consensus of the group was about 15 minutes. Now that makes sense to me, but I think it is more important to make sure that you are confirming your appointments and exchanging telephone numbers.  I like to email my appointments the day of our meeting, just asking if we are still good as scheduled. I include my number in the email; in case something changes, so they can reach out to me. Texting is also a good way to confirm.

I do understand that things can happen as you are walking out the door and last minute situations may prevent you from keeping the appointment. It is never acceptable to just not show up for a meeting. This is extremely disrespectful.  By exchanging phone numbers you can eliminate this issue from happening. You have my number. So you can call or text, no excuses. If you have a situation where you can’t make the meeting, let the other person know as soon as possible. A text message takes less than a minute to type out. You can then follow up later for a reschedule. If you don’t show up and then try to call and reschedule with me at some later point, I am probably no longer interested. Would you be?

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Kevin Willett is the Author of One Connection How you can grow your business  (and change the world) one connection at a time. The business networking book is available on Amazon. Purchase One Connection on Amazon

Kevin is also the CEO of the Friends of Kevin Networking Group  and the New England B2B Networking Group. Please connect with him on social media to hear about his upcoming business networking events.

Are You Turning Over Every Rock in Your Job Search?

Kevin Willett compares networking for yourself to networking for business.

I love to speak to job seekers about using business networking in their job search because I truly believe your next job is coming from a networking connection. However, I am always surprised when less than ten percent of the group takes me up on my offer to help them.

If you are a job seeker you can send me your resume (as a word document please) and I will share it on the Friends of Kevin website, post it on my social media sites and use my contacts to help you find a job. In the last two years I have placed twenty five people. My friends, what do you have to lose by letting me help you?

One of the comments I receive all the time is “Kevin it is awkward to ask a complete stranger to help me”. My friends, to me, trying to find a job is like trying to grow your business. Most people attending a networking event are asking complete strangers to do business with them, so in my eyes there is no difference.

I have seen a few articles lately about the power of loose connections to help you find a job. People are often surprised when someone they casually know reaches out to them to help in their job search. That is the power of business networking.

By not attending events, you are missing out on your chance to form those connections. Also please don’t attend just once or twice and stop coming because it didn’t help you find a job. Just like when you are networking for your business, please give people time to get to know, like and trust you. I think you might be surprised by the results.

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Kevin Willett is the Author of One Connection How you can grow your business  (and change the world) one connection at a time. The business networking book is available on Amazon. Purchase One Connection on Amazon

Kevin is also the CEO of the Friends of Kevin Networking Group  and the New England B2B Networking Group. Please connect with him on social media to hear about his upcoming business networking events.

My Clients Don’t Attend Networking Events

Kevin Willett explains the importance of having referral partners.

Often when I ask people to attend networking events they respond by saying “I don’t attend networking events because my clients are not in the room.”

I have to admit, that always makes me smile. I will then ask them “but are your referral partners in the room?” This will often cause people to pause and ask me what I mean.

Let me give you an example. My friend sells voice and data lines. If she attends an event with a commercial realtor, banker and insurance person she has three opportunities to build relationships with people who could be a constant referral source for her. Those three people may not need her services at this time, but they may have several clients among them who do need the service.

So next time you are tempted to skip a networking event because your clients are not in the room, ask yourself if your referral partners will be attending, because honestly that is where the gold is. If you can build relationships with people who are constantly passing you referrals, it is a much better way to network.

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Kevin Willett is the Author of One Connection How you can grow your business  (and change the world) one connection at a time. The business networking book is available on Amazon. Purchase One Connection on Amazon

Kevin is also the CEO of the Friends of Kevin Networking Group  and the New England B2B Networking Group. Please connect with him on social media to hear about his upcoming business networking events.

 

What is the One Skill that Makes People Great Networkers?

Kevin Willett explains how great listeners make great networkers.

I get asked this question all the time and the answer is simple, great networkers are great listeners. When I think about the people, who I believe are successful at networking, they all have one trait in common they are great listeners.

Humor me for a minute and let me play a game with you. Think about the last networking event you went to where everyone was allowed to speak for one minute about their business. How many of the messages do you remember? If you are like most people, the answer is very few. This is because you were focusing on what you were going to say rather than what the others were saying. The people who do well with networking take the time to listen to each commercial (many take notes), so they know how to help the other group members.  If you want to be more successful focus on improving your listening skills and focus on helping other members of the group. I think you may be pleasantly surprised by the results you will receive.

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Kevin is also the CEO of the Friends of Kevin Networking Group  and the New England B2B Networking Group. Please connect with him on social media to hear about his upcoming business networking events.

Sometimes It Takes More Than a Phone Call

Kevin Willett explains that sometimes face to face is needed when doing business.

I was speaking to a friend this morning and he told me because he has been so busy lately, that instead of meeting with potential clients in person, he has only been to offering to talk with them by phone. When I asked him how that strategy was going, he told me ‘honestly, not that great’.

I have to admit I chuckled because I remember having this same idea a while ago. I was going through a rapid growth phase in my business and was having trouble finding the time to meet with potential clients in person, so I decided that I would video chat or talk by phone with them. At the time, I was surprised that my results were poor.

Now I realize that there are lots of networking opportunities available. I also realize people chose to join my group because when they sit down with me they see my passion for networking and believe that I can help them. It is much harder for you to build that trust in a phone call with someone that you have never met.

I have people say to me “but Kevin, it gets frustrating when I take the time to meet someone and they decide not to become a client. I feel like I wasted my time.” I don’t believe that any meeting is ever a waste of time. Each time I speak with a potential client it is an opportunity to improve on my speaking skills and I have found that although they may not join the group, they often refer me to potential clients.

Please give some thought to this next time you are tempted to ask someone to speak by phone rather than meet in person.

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Kevin Willett is the Author of One Connection How you can grow your business  (and change the world) one connection at a time. The business networking book is available on Amazon. Purchase One Connection on Amazon

Kevin is also the CEO of the Friends of Kevin Networking Group  and the New England B2B Networking Group. Please connect with him on social media to hear about his upcoming business networking events.

Do You Collect Connections Like Baseball Cards?

Kevin Willett talks about the quantity of your connections not being as important as what you can do for them.

Last week I had a person connect with me on social media. When I sent him a message thanking him for connecting with me and asking him if I could help him, his response was “No, thanks. I am just growing my network.” Ok, where do I start with how wrong this is? How does connecting with me and then choosing to not engage with me help either of us? It’s simple, it doesn’t help. I don’t know anything about him or what he does for a living, so I have no way of knowing how to help him. Obviously, he had no intention of getting to know me or what I do either.

It reminds of when I was a little kid I loved collecting sports cards. Each year I would try to collect every card from the set and my goal was to having the biggest collection in the neighborhood, which I did by the way. I didn’t care who was on the card, if it was part of the collection, I had to have it.

Sadly many people treat their business connections like trading cards. It simply doesn’t work that way.  Connections are not part of a set that you need to collect. You need to take the time to build a relationship with them so they don’t become just a trading card in a shoe box under your bed.

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Kevin Willett is the Author of One Connection How you can grow your business  (and change the world) one connection at a time. The business networking book is available on Amazon. Purchase One Connection on Amazon

Kevin is also the CEO of the Friends of Kevin Networking Group  and the New England B2B Networking Group. Please connect with him on social media to hear about his upcoming business networking events.