Please Do Not Be Mad At Me

Kevin Willett says that in business as in life, compromise works for everyone.

I received an email this weekend from a person asking to meet me for coffee. When I told him that I could meet him in about six weeks, he emailed me back saying that if I didn’t want to meet him, I should just say so and not lie to him about my schedule being so full. I then made it worse and told him that if he wanted to talk sooner then we could schedule a video chat. Sadly, that just made it worse. His response was ‘what are you too important to meet me in person’?

Please understand that sometimes the people you want to meet with are super busy, and they are not trying to hurt your feelings by asking you if they can video chat with you instead.

Time management has become my biggest challenge. When I combine teaching with hosting twenty networking events, I often struggle with having time to do everything I need to.  Because of this I do have to think twice before I agree to drive more than 30 minutes to meet someone in person. Please understand that I am not trying to hurt your feelings, I am simply trying to grow my business. So rather than get upset about it, how about you offer to meet half way. That would be a big help and start off a business relationship on the right foot.

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Kevin Willett is the Author of One Connection How you can grow your business  (and change the world) one connection at a time. The business networking book is available on Amazon. Purchase One Connection on Amazon

Kevin is also the CEO of the Friends of Kevin Networking Group  and the New England B2B Networking Group. Please connect with him on social media to hear about his upcoming business networking events

It Is Time to Leave Your Tribe

Kevin Willett says expanding your affiliations increases the reach of you business

I meet a lot of people who only belong to one networking group. When I ask them why they haven’t tried other groups, they usually say things like “I feel safe where I am”, or “I am comfortable there”. That is OK, but I think you are missing a chance to grow as a person and as an entrepreneur.

I see people join groups based on gender, religion and education, and I do think that makes sense and that it is a good starting point. However, you must ask yourself, is the group providing you with enough business to reach your goals, if not then it is time to leave your tribe.

I was speaking to a friend last week that is very involved in his school’s alumni group because he knows everyone, and he enjoys the pride of being a member. However, the more we spoke the more he admitted that he wasn’t getting the quality or quantity of referrals he needed.

There is nothing wrong with joining groups because your share a bond with the members but focusing your efforts on those groups may be holding back your growth.

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Kevin Willett is the Author of One Connection How you can grow your business  (and change the world) one connection at a time. The business networking book is available on Amazon. Purchase One Connection on Amazon

Kevin is also the CEO of the Friends of Kevin Networking Group  and the New England B2B Networking Group. Please connect with him on social media to hear about his upcoming business networking events

Go Watch TV

Kevin Willett thinks everyone is unique in their work ethic that leads to success

If you listen to the “Gurus” they will tell you that you need to work 24 hours a day in order to be successful. I am constantly seeing pictures online of people wearing their hustle and grind shirts.

I believe there is a time for hustling and grinding, but for me it is not every day. I have been that guy that works 18 hours a day and yes, I did grow my business with this approach. However, it was also taking a toll on both my mind and body. I have learned I am better off being super focused and working fewer hours.  I often get my best ideas while I am resting, watching TV or reading. These breaks give me time to recharge and come up with new ideas.

I think business is all about balance. It is up to you to define success.

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Kevin Willett is the Author of One Connection How you can grow your business  (and change the world) one connection at a time. The business networking book is available on Amazon. Purchase One Connection on Amazon

Kevin is also the CEO of the Friends of Kevin Networking Group  and the New England B2B Networking Group. Please connect with him on social media to hear about his upcoming business networking events

Now What?

Kevin Willett says that social media connections should not be collected for the sake of numbers, that will not help your business.

I was reviewing my LinkedIn profile and I noticed someone had viewed my account that fit my criteria for people I want to connect with. So I sent her a connection request, which she accepted, and told me that she was participating in a webinar on how to connect with people on LinkedIn. Her goal was to reach out to a mutual connection to ask for an introduction, but she did not have to do that now because I connected with her.

I am waiting to see what she will do next. Sadly, this happens a lot. People connect with each other on social media and then do not do anything with the person to build a relationship. You cannot collect connections like baseball cards. You need to engage with people and build relationships. It is very rare that someone who you randomly connected with will be comfortable enough with you to reach out if they need your services.

Her next step should be to reach out to me to see if we can meet up for a coffee. I understand this can be a time consuming process, but it is necessary step in the process of building relationships. As always we do business with people we know, like and trust. It is really hard to build that trust through random social media connections.

Watch my YouTube Channel  for more on this and other Business Networking Tips

Kevin Willett is the Author of One Connection How you can grow your business  (and change the world) one connection at a time. The business networking book is available on Amazon. Purchase One Connection on Amazon

Kevin is also the CEO of the Friends of Kevin Networking Group  and the New England B2B Networking Group. Please connect with him on social media to hear about his upcoming business networking events